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Wednesday, June 15, 2011

People

Life is incomplete without descriptions and stories of people, from around us and from within our lives.
While we move through different phase's of our life we encounter new additions and removals from family. A family that we become as a class. A family that we stick together in name of as we work or achieve.
How exactly are we expected to receive new entries into our own well defined, nicely settled, and acquainted family.
The societies norm is that we should settle for change and make the newbies feel part of the clan. make them feel  like home. not give them a strange nudge, but is that all a person needs to become a part of the family(like seriously).
what for us may be a nice introduction and questioning and sometimes even fun session might look like a kiddish behavior to the ones who have walked in jus then.
We do our job while we go around asking for names and backgrounds of the new comers, but what do they feel about our whole *making them feel part* process is a totally different and here a shocking perspective.
What if all the while u were trying to be all nice n good they felt that they were being treated by small kids like toys who are being scanned so that they can join the big fat toy story*0_0*
May be, may be not!

What backgrounds they come from also shape a lot of ideas don't they?
They dressing up in a certain way also might be give away's to us "Wella"(jobless) people.
How can u decide that a person is not only gay but be so bloody sure of even spreading it around with a typical tone and expression - *Dude he's so Gay ya*.
All this without even knowing his name.
I stand in dilemma after hearing out the other side of the story as for me behaving in a decent and a good way to the new people was no where even close to perceiving them as kids.
It is also strange how all of the many can have a different overview of US...the Class...the family....the class that went from "I to WE" after some adventurous, bumpy rides :P

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